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Stockholders are urged to read the proxy statement regarding the proposed
transaction when it becomes available because it will contain important
information. Stockholders will be able to obtain a free copy of the proxy
statement and other relevant documents, without charge, at the Securities and
Exchange Commission's internet site (http://www.sec.gov.). Copies of the proxy
statement can also be obtained, without charge, by directing a request to Gold
Banc; 11301 Nall Avenue, Leawood, Kansas 66211 Attention: Rick Tremblay; (913)
451-8030.

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deemed to be participants in the solicitation of proxies in respect of the
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officers is available in the proxy statement filed with the Securities and
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GOLD BANC                                                        PRESS RELEASE

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CONTACT:

Rick J. Tremblay                        Sherman Titens
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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

                    GOLD BANC TO BE ACQUIRED FOR $672 MILLION

Leawood, Kansas - February 25, 2004) - Gold Banc (NASDAQ: GLDB) announced today
that it has entered into a definitive merger agreement with Silver Acquisition
Corp. ("Silver"). Silver will acquire all of the outstanding shares of common
stock of Gold Banc for $16.60 per share in cash, a 16 % premium over yesterday's
closing price of $14.32. The merger is expected to be completed in the third
quarter of 2004. If the merger is not completed by July 23, 2004, Gold Banc
stockholders would receive an additional $0.0023 per share for each day elapsing
thereafter through the closing date of the merger.

Mick Aslin, Chief Executive Officer of Gold Banc, said, "As always, our
priorities are to deliver value to Gold Banc stockholders, ensure a high level
of service to our customers and recognize the excellent work of our associates.
We believe this transaction does so in a very significant and immediate way. Our
stockholders will receive a sizeable premium over current market levels and our
company and its employees will be able to continue the tradition of providing
outstanding service to our customers."

Silver is the acquisition vehicle for an investor group led by C. Stanley
Bailey, a career banker. The purchasing group includes The Cypress Group and DLJ
Merchant Banking. Mr. Bailey was most recently Chairman and CEO of Superior
Financial Corp. Upon completion of the sale Bailey will become CEO of Gold Banc
and Aslin will be elected non-executive Chairman of the Board.

"I am pleased to have Stan Bailey lead what I fully anticipate will be a
seamless transition in building upon our premier community banking model," Aslin
continued. "Stan is highly regarded in the financial and banking community for
the track record he has demonstrated in successfully operating financial
institutions that emphasize community involvement and responsiveness to customer
needs and they are two of the core values of Gold Banc. I expect to be active in
helping to further these goals."

Gold Banc's shareholders must approve the merger. It is also subject to the
receipt of required regulatory approvals and the receipt of necessary financing.
Silver has obtained written commitments for approximately 80% of the planned
$455 million in common equity and expects to receive commitments for the balance
of the required financing within 60 days. Silver has received a letter from
Keefe, Bruyette & Woods, Inc. stating that it is highly confident that it can
arrange the financing needed for the merger subject to market and certain other
conditions.

Gold Banc's banking subsidiaries in Kansas, Florida and Oklahoma would be
consolidated into a single Kansas bank and then converted into a federal savings
bank established by Silver for that purpose. Following those transactions and
the merger, the surviving parent would be a privately held savings and loan
holding company regulated by the Office of Thrift Supervision. Gold Bank would
continue to offer its current range of products and services from the same
locations and both Gold Bank and the holding company, Gold Banc, would retain
their respective names.

Keefe, Bruyette & Woods, Inc. serves as financial advisor and placement agent
for Silver. Sandler O'Neill & Partners, L.P. serves as financial advisor to Gold
Banc and issued an opinion to its Board of Directors that the offer is fair from
a financial point of view.




About Gold Banc

Gold Banc, with assets totaling approximately $4 billion, is one of the nation's
premier community banking and financial services companies. Headquartered in
Leawood, KS, Gold Banc owns and operates 40 community banks located largely in
the Kansas City metropolitan area of Missouri and Kansas; the Sarasota and Tampa
Bay metropolitan areas on the West Coast of Florida; and the Tulsa and Oklahoma
City metropolitan areas of Oklahoma. The Company provides banking and wealth
management services. It also owns and operates Gold Trust Company which provides
trust management and administration services and Gold Capital Management, which
provides brokerage and investment services.

About Silver Acquisition Corp. (Silver)

Silver was created for the purpose of engaging in the merger with Gold Banc
Corporation. C. Stanley Bailey will serve as the Chief Executive Officer of Gold
Banc after the merger. In addition to his service at Superior Financial Corp.
("Superior"), Bailey has served as Executive Vice President and CFO of Hancock
Holding Company and Vice Chairman and CFO of AmSouth Bancorporation. Bailey will
be accompanied by C. Marvin Scott and Rick D. Gardner to head the management
team of Gold Banc after consummation of the merger. Scott and Gardner served as
members of the executive management team at Superior. Bailey, Scott and Gardner
bring a combined 78 years of banking experience to Gold Banc.

About The Cypress Group

The Cypress Group L.L.C. manages two private equity funds with more than $3.5
billion in commitments. Cypress invests in privately negotiated transactions,
targeting operating businesses and investing with management to foster continued
growth. Investments made by Cypress include Cinemark, Inc.; AMTROL, Inc.;
Williams Scotsman, Inc.; WESCO International, Inc.; ClubCorp, Inc.; Danka
Business Systems PLC; MedPointe Inc.; Montpelier Re Holdings Ltd.; Republic
National Cabinet Corp.; Catlin Group Ltd.; The Meow Mix Company; Financial
Guaranty Insurance Company (FGIC); and Communications & Power Industries, Inc.

About DLJ Merchant Banking

Since 1985, DLJ Merchant Banking (DLJMB) has been one of the most active and
successful private equity investment firms providing a flexible investment
mandate that allows it to pursue equity and structured equity investment
opportunities across all industries and geographic regions. The most recent fund
-- its third generation fund, DLJ Merchant Banking Partners III, L.P. --closed
in November 2001 with $5.3 billion in committed capital, making it one of the
largest funds in the world. The DLJ Merchant Banking funds investment strategy
focuses on industry leaders, proactive industry specializations, investment in
build-up and contrarian opportunities and structured equity investments for an
efficient return of invested capital.

FORWARD-LOOKING STATEMENTS

This release contains information and "forward-looking statements" which relate
to matters that are not historical facts and which are usually preceded by the
words "may," "will," "should," "could," "would," "plan," "potential,"
"estimate," "project," "believe," "intend," "anticipate," "expect," "target" and
similar expressions. These forward-looking statements are subject to significant
risks, assumptions and uncertainties, including, but not limited to, the ability
to complete the merger and those described in the periodic reports we file with
the Securities and Exchange Commission.

Because of these and other uncertainties, our actual results may be materially
different from those described in these forward-looking statements. The
forward-looking statements in this release speak only as of the date of the
release, and we do not assume any obligation to update the forward-looking
statements or to update the reasons why actual results could differ from those
contained in the forward-looking statements.




GOLD BANC LETTER TO SHAREHOLDERS

Dear Valued Shareholder,

We have signed a definitive merger agreement with Silver Acquisition Corp.
(SAC), an entity recently formed by an investor group led by Stan Bailey, and
including The Cypress Group and DLJ Merchant Banking.

I am pleased to report that, under the terms of this agreement, SAC will pay
$16.60 per share, in cash, representing a 16 percent premium over GLDB's closing
price of $14.32 on February 24, the day before the transaction was signed and a
premium of 94 percent over the price of $8.55 when Gold Banc made a management
change on March 17 of last year. Gold Banc has approximately 39.9 million shares
outstanding, which puts the value of this transaction at more than $ 662
million, plus assumed liabilities of $112.5 million.

Upon completion of the merger, Mr. Bailey will become CEO and I will become the
non-executive Chairman of the Board. Mr. Bailey has a long and successful
history in the banking industry, and will bring a great deal of banking
expertise to Gold Banc.

As always, our first priority is to deliver value to you, our shareholders. This
transaction, which has the unanimous support of our board of directors, is the
best way to achieve this. Not only will you receive a sizeable premium, but our
company and its associates will be able to continue the tradition of providing
outstanding service to our customers.

Under terms of the agreement, Gold Banc's banking subsidiaries in Kansas,
Florida, and Oklahoma would be consolidated into a single Kansas bank and then
converted into a federal savings bank established by SAC. Following these
transactions and the merger, the surviving parent would be a savings and loan
holding company regulated by the Office of Thrift Supervision.

Using this format to conduct business offers a number of advantages in terms of
branching (both in and out of state) and investment diversification. As a
federal savings bank, Gold Bank would continue to offer its current range of
products and services from the same locations and both Gold Bank and the holding
company, Gold Banc, would retain their respective names.

I fully expect that Stan Bailey and his team will lead a seamless transition in
building upon our premier community-banking model. He has an established track
record for successfully managing financial institutions that emphasize close
ties to the community and responsiveness to customer needs, values that have
long represented the core of Gold Banc's mission.

We welcome your comments, and are available to answer any questions you may have
about today's announcement. Thank you for being a part of Gold Banc's success.

Sincerely,
Mick Aslin




GOLD BANC LETTER TO COMMUNITY LEADERS IN KANSAS CITY

I wanted you to be among the first to know about an announcement we made on
February 25 that holds significant benefits for the community, shareholders,
customers, and associates of Gold Banc. Our company has reached a merger
agreement to be acquired by Silver Acquisition Corporation (SAC). It also is
good for Kansas City because it ensures that Gold Banc will continue to be
locally managed with significant local ownership for the foreseeable future.

This transaction, which has the unanimous support of our independent board of
directors, is also good news for our shareholders, associates and customers. Not
only will it provide a sizeable premium to shareholders, but our company and its
associates will be able to continue the tradition of providing outstanding
service to our customers.

Silver Acquisition Corporation is a recently formed investor group that
includes, among other parties, Stan Bailey. Mr. Bailey has a long and successful
history in the banking industry, and will bring a great deal of banking
expertise to Gold Banc. As part of the acquisition, Mr. Bailey will become CEO
and will move to the Kansas City area. I will become the non-executive Chairman
of the Board.

I expect that Stan Bailey and his team will lead a seamless transition in
building upon our premier community-banking model. Stan has an established track
record of successfully managing financial institutions that emphasize close ties
to the community and responsiveness to customer needs, values that have long
represented the core of Gold Banc's mission.

We welcome your comments, and are available to answer any questions you may have
about today's announcement. Thank you for being a part of Gold Banc's success.

Sincerely,

Mick Aslin
Gold Banc President and CEO





GOLD BANC LETTER TO CUSTOMERS

Dear Valued Customer,

We are writing to tell you about an event that holds significant benefits for
all Gold Bank customers.

Today, our parent, Gold Banc, announced that the signing of a definitive merger
agreement with Silver Acquisition Corp. (SAC), an entity recently formed by a
private investor group led by Stan Bailey, and including The Cypress Group and
DLJ Merchant Banking.

Under our agreement with SAC, our banks will be combined into a privately held,
federal savings bank. This new federal savings bank will continue to operate
under the name Gold Bank, and will continue to do business in the same
locations.

Stan Bailey will become the CEO, and I will assume the position of non-
executive Chairman of the Board. Mr. Bailey is a career banker and has a long
and successful history in the banking industry. His expertise will contribute
meaningfully to the continued success of Gold Bank.

I expect that Stan Bailey will lead a seamless transition in building upon our
premier community-banking model. He has an established track record for
successfully managing banks that emphasize community involvement and
responsiveness to customer needs; both are core values of Gold Bank.

For you, our valued customer, this announcement means that Gold Bank will
continue to build on its strengths while continuing to explore new and even
better ways to serve you.

This evolution of Gold Bank will be transparent to our customers. We will
continue to strive to give you the superior service you have come to expect, to
anticipate your financial needs and go above and beyond in meeting them.

We welcome your comments, and are available to answer any questions you may have
about today's announcement. Thank you for your continued patronage of, and
confidence in, Gold Bank.

Sincerely,

Mick Aslin





GOLD BANC LETTER TO EMPLOYEES


Dear Associate,

Today we announced that we have signed of a definitive merger agreement with
Silver Acquisition Corp. (SAC), an entity recently formed by a small group of
private investors led by Stan Bailey, and including The Cypress Group and DLJ
Merchant Banking.

As part of the acquisition, Stan will become CEO, and I will become the
non-executive Chairman of the Board. Stan has a long and successful history in
the banking industry, and will bring a great deal of banking expertise, which
will be an excellent complement to our strong commercial banking operations.

Stan has an established track record of successfully managing financial
institutions that emphasize close ties to the community and responsiveness to
customer needs, values that, as you are well aware, have long represented the
core of Gold Banc's mission.

Under terms of the agreement, Gold Banc's banking subsidiaries in Kansas,
Florida, and Oklahoma would be consolidated into a single Kansas bank and then
converted into a federal savings bank established by SAC. Following these
transactions and the merger, the surviving parent would be a savings and loan
holding company regulated by the Office of Thrift Supervision. The federal
savings bank would operate under the name Gold Bank and would continue to do
business in the same locations.

For you as associates, today's announcement means that Gold Banc will continue
to build on its strengths and explore new and even better ways to serve our
customers. We are embarking on an exciting new era of growth and opportunity,
and together we will continue to build Gold Banc into an ever-stronger and more
vital part of the communities we serve.

Unlike other acquisitions and mergers, there is not the challenge of merging two
employee groups. You, the associates of Gold Banc, are the employees of the new
organization. You are a vital part of this transition, and of the exciting
future we see for the new Gold Banc.

We welcome your comments, and are available to answer any questions you may have
about today's announcement. Thank you for your continued dedication to our
company and its customers.

Sincerely,

Mick Aslin
Attachment:
Press Release



ANNOUNCEMENT Q & A

                       Announcement Questions and Answers

Questions about the Deal

Q:   What is today's announcement?

A:   The company signed a definitive merger agreement with Silver Acquisition
     Group (SAC), a recently formed investment group led by Stan Bailey, and
     including The Cypress Group and DLJ Merchant Banking. As part of the
     acquisition, Mr. Bailey will become CEO and Mick Aslin, current Gold Banc
     President and CEO, will become the non-executive Chairman of the Board.

Q:   Why are we being acquired?

A:   As a public company, Gold Banc's first responsibility is to maximize value
     to the shareholders. When SAC approached the Company with this offer,
     considerable time was spent determining whether moving forward would be in
     the best interests of our shareholders, customers, and associates. After
     thoughtful analysis, it was determined the company should move forward and
     the decision was unanimously approved by Gold Banc's Board of Directors,
     except for Mr. Aslin who abstained because he would be serving as the
     non-executive Chairman of the Board of Directors of the surviving
     corporation.

Q:   When will the deal be final?

A:   There are several steps before the transaction will be finalized. The deal
     is expected to be completed by the third quarter of 2004.

Q:   What approvals are needed for this acquisition to proceed?

A:   The merger agreement requires approval by the holders of a majority of the
     shares of Gold Banc's common stock. The merger is also subject to other
     conditions, including regulatory approval and receipt of necessary
     financing.

Q:   Why does this deal make sense now?

A:   The climate for transactions like this is very good right now, and Gold
     Banc is performing very well. Gold Banc has had strong deposit and earnings
     growth despite the challenges of the past year and has made great strides
     in regaining the confidence of associates, customers and shareholders. This
     transaction provides a significant opportunity to bring added value to
     shareholders while allowing associates to continue the tradition of
     providing outstanding service to customers.

Q:   Who stands to make the most from this transaction?

A:   This will be good for shareholders, associates, customers and the
     communities we serve. This secures the future for Gold Banc associates
     while rewarding shareholders with a significant cash premium. It also is
     good for Kansas City because it ensures that Gold Banc will continue to be
     locally managed with significant local ownership for the foreseeable
     future.

Q:   How much will SAC pay for Gold Banc?

A:   SAC has agreed to acquire Gold Banc Corporation for $16.60 per share, in
     cash. Gold Banc has approximately 39.9 million shares outstanding, which
     puts the value of the transaction at more than $662 million.

Q:   Why is this is a good deal for shareholders?

A:   Shareholders will receive a 16% premium over current market levels.

Q:   Was the bank being aggressively shopped?

A:   Gold Banc has a responsibility to shareholders to provide the greatest
     value possible. So, when the Gold Banc received the SAC offer, it surveyed
     logical acquirors and verified that SAC's offer satisfied this objective.




Q:   Do we expect other bidders to emerge? What will you do if another bank
     makes a higher counteroffer?

A:   With the help of investment banker, Sandler O'Neill & Partners, L.P., Gold
     Banc explored a thorough sales process. Under the merger agreement, the
     Board has the right to respond to other offers from other institutions if
     it determines that such an offer would be more favorable to Gold Banc
     shareholders. However, Gold Banc would be required to pay a $20 million fee
     to SAC if Gold Banc entered into another deal. Gold Banc is focused on
     completing this transaction which maximizes value for shareholders.

Q:   Did the board unanimously approve the deal?

A:   Yes, except for Mr. Aslin who abstained because he will be serving as
     non-executive chairman of the Board of SAC.

Questions about SAC

Q:   Why Silver Acquisition Group? Did we consider other partners?

A:   When Gold Banc was approached by SAC late last year, Sandler O'Neill &
     Partners, L.P. was hired to do a confidential market assessment to
     determine the strength of the SAC offer and also to explore other potential
     partners. As a result of that work, it was determined that this was a very
     strong proposal and worth our consideration.

Q:   What attracted SAC to Gold Banc?

A:   Our ability to recover from the events of last March and to post record
     growth in deposits and earnings. We weathered the adversity and became an
     even stronger organization. In addition, SAC was attracted to our community
     banking model and our locations, especially those in high-growth metro
     areas.

Q:   What can you tell us about this group? What is their industry reputation?

A:   Silver Acquisition Group is a recently formed small group of private
     investors. Led by Mr. Bailey, the group includes The Cypress Group, and DLJ
     Merchant Banking. Mr. Bailey is highly regarded in the financial and
     banking community for the track record he has demonstrated in successfully
     operating financial institutions that emphasize close ties to community
     involvement and responsiveness to customer needs, two of our core values.

Q:   What is Mr. Bailey's banking experience?

A:   Mr. Bailey has over 25 years of experience in finance and banking. He has
     extensive experience working for both large banking institutions and
     investment firms. He served as the CFO of AmSouth Bancorp for 15 years. In
     1995, Mr. Bailey led an investment group that acquired Little Rock-based
     Superior Financial from Bank of America.

Q:   What will be Mr. Bailey's role moving forward?

A:   Mr. Bailey will become CEO. He will move from Little Rock to the Kansas
     City area.

Questions about future changes at Gold Banc

Q:   Why is Mr. Aslin stepping down?

A:   Mr. Aslin will serve as the non-executive Chairman of the Board and will
     help the company through the transition process. He has signed a three-year
     non-compete and consulting agreement to ensure a smooth transition. This is
     consistent with Mr. Aslin's desire to ensure a succession plan for Gold
     Bank.

Q:   Will our name change?

A:   Gold Bank will continue to do business in the same locations under the same
     name. The holding company name will continue to be Gold Banc.

Q:   What effect will this have on jobs?



A:   This transaction will have very little effect on our day-to-day operations.
     SAC is an acquisition group, not another bank, and therefore does not have
     an existing group of employees. It will be important for associates to
     continue doing the great work they have been doing.

Q:   Will this affect the day-to-day job responsibilities of associates?

A:   No.

Q:   Will the structure of our company change?

A:   Under terms of the agreement, Gold Banc's banking subsidiaries in Kansas,
     Florida, and Oklahoma would be consolidated into a single Kansas bank and
     then converted into a federal savings bank established by SAC. Following
     these transactions and the merger, the surviving parent would be a savings
     and loan holding company regulated by the Office of Thrift Supervision. The
     federal savings bank would operate under the name Gold Bank and would
     continue to do business in the same locations. The holding company would be
     regulated by the OTS.

Q:   What happens to stock options?

A:   SAC would like to have all options cashed out. Silver will be encouraging
     all optionees to do so.

Questions about the impact on customers

Q:   What will this mean to customers?

A:   Customers can expect the same high level of service and professionalism
     that they have come to expect from Gold Bank.

Q:   Will customers experience any inconveniences as a result of the change in
     control?

A:   A smooth transition is expected. Unlike most mergers involving another
     large company, there will be no systems conversions, sign changes, or
     branch closings caused by the transaction.

Q:   What will change at the branch level? Will this acquisition diminish the
     level of customer service at the branches?

A:   Customer service is our number one priority, and a core strength of Gold
     Banc's organization. A smooth transition is expected.





MANAGER TALKING POINTS

o    Today, Gold Banc Corporation  announced a definitive merger agreement to be
     acquired by Silver Acquisition Corporation.

o    Under this agreement, we will become a privately owned bank.

o    When the deal is final,  Mick Aslin will  become  Chairman of the Board and
     Stan Bailey, one of the investors, will become CEO.

o    Gold Banc  shareholders  will receive cash for their shares at a price that
     represents  a 16% premium over the market close on February 24 and 92% over
     the market price on March 17, 2003, the day that the management  transition
     took place.

o    I'm sure you're wondering what this announcement means for our group.

o    Today's  announcement  means  business as usual for us. We will continue to
     operate in the same locations under the same name.

o    Being a privately  owned bank will allow us to focus even more attention on
     serving customers.


o    We expect the acquisition to be completed in the third quarter.

o    The first step is to receive  approval  by the holders of a majority of the
     shares of Gold Banc's common stock, get regulatory  approval and receipt of
     necessary financing.

o    SAC  already  has  commitments  for  80  percent  of the  financing  and is
     confident that it will receive the remaining portion in the near future.

o    We expect  this  acquisition  to have a positive  effect on our culture and
     associates.

o    As we move  through the process you will  receive  updates on the status of
     steps completed.

o    I will keep you informed as decisions are made and events take place.

o    In the meantime,  it is important for all of us to keep focused on our work
     and continue to provide excellent service to our customers.

o    Let me stop here and get your  feedback.  Any reactions  that you'd like to
     share or questions that you have? I will try to answer as many questions as
     I can. If I don't know the answer, I'll find out for you.

[Open the floor for questions.]

o    Thank you for your time. If you think of additional  questions,  please let
     me know and we will get them answered for you.