UNITED STATES
                       SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION
                             Washington, D.C. 20549

                                  SCHEDULE 14A

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                              Exchange Act of 1934

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                                BCB Bancorp, Inc.
                (Name of Registrant as Specified In Its Charter)


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                                                                  April 21, 2004
                                    IMPORTANT


Dear Fellow Shareholders:

We are writing to provide you with relevant information about your investment in
BCB Bancorp,  Inc. and Bayonne Community Bank and to ask for your support at our
Annual Meeting of  Shareholders  on May 11, 2004. As you know a dissident  group
has commenced a hostile proxy contest to gain control of your Company's Board of
Directors. We do not believe that the dissident's hand picked slate of nominee's
represent the best long-term interest of all shareholders.

Why do we oppose the dissident group...The answer is simple.
Your board believes that the dissident committee only has a short-term strategy
for your bank.

WHY DO WE BELIEVE THIS? ...BECAUSE THEY SAID SO!!

On December 9, 2003,  Virginia Kemp, a dissident nominee,  indicated through her
attorney that she would submit a proposal to the company to "sell the bank".  We
have  attached  this letter for you to see who is telling  the truth.  WE DO NOT
BELIEVE  THAT THE  DISSIDENT  NOMINEES  HAVE YOUR  BEST  INTEREST  AT HEART,  AS
INDICATED BY MS. KEMP.  WE BELIEVE THEY WILL PURSUE A SHORT TERM  STRATEGY  THAT
WILL RESULT IN THE SALE OF BAYONNE COMMUNITY BANK.

                    NOW THE DISSIDENTS ARE TWISTING REALITY!

Mickey McCabe, the former chairman and a dissident director,  asked FinPro, Inc.
to analyze a merger with a specific financial  institution.  The dissident group
refused to accept a board decision to continue as an  independent  company after
FinPro,  Inc.'s  presentation.  The  dissident  group  sought  to  have  ongoing
discussions  for the sale of Bayonne  Community  Bank.  When the dissident group
failed to get their way,  Virginia  Kemp's "sell the bank" letter  arrived.  The
dissident  directors refused to accept the decision of the Board to continue the
successful implementation of your Company's Business Plan.

                           NOW IS NOT THE TIME TO SELL

Your board has considered the dissident  group's strategy and the board, by more
than a majority  vote,  concluded that now is not the time to sell the bank. Our
nominees to the Board of Directors  are  committed to  continuing  the Company's
business plan for the benefit of the Bayonne community and its shareholders. Our
nominees are highly  regarded local  businessmen who understand the needs of our
customers and community.



            We strongly urge you to reject the dissident nominees and
                         vote for management's nominees.

                        VOTE THE WHITE proxy card today.


                 REALIZE THE LONG-TERM VALUE OF YOUR INVESTMENT

Our  management  team and  nominees  for  your  Board of  Directors  are  highly
qualified to implement  the  Company's  growth  strategies  and will continue to
maximize shareholder value. Don't let the dissident committee disrupt our plan.



WE BELIEVE THE CONTINUED  SUCCESSFUL EXECUTION OF OUR BUSINESS PLAN WILL BENEFIT
SHAREHOLDERS AND THE BAYONNE COMMUNITY.



                   DO NOT SIGN OR RETURN THE GREEN PROXY CARD

           PLEASE SIGN, DATE AND RETURN THE ENCLOSED WHITE PROXY CARD.



Thank you for your continued support.




Mark D. Hogan                              Donald Mindiak
Chairman of the Board                      President and Chief Executive Officer



             BCB BANCORP, INC. - GROWING WITH THE BAYONNE COMMUNITY.






                           YOUR VOTE IS VERY IMPORTANT



     1.   To maintain the  independence of Bayonne  Community Bank, the Board of
          Directors  urges you to DISCARD the GREEN proxy card  recently sent to
          you by the Committee.  A "WITHHOLD  AUTHORITY" vote on the Green proxy
          card  is NOT a vote  for  the  Board's  nominees.  To  vote  FOR  your
          Company's nominees you MUST execute a WHITE proxy card.

     2.   If you voted on a Green proxy card BUT WISH TO SUPPORT YOUR  COMPANY'S
          NOMINEES and  maintain the  independence  of Bayonne  Community  Bank,
          please  sign,  date and  mail the  enclosed  WHITE  proxy  card in the
          postage-paid envelope provided as soon as possible.

     3.   Remember - ONLY YOUR LATEST DATED PROXY WILL DETERMINE HOW YOUR SHARES
          ARE TO BE VOTED AT THE MEETING.

     4.   If any of your shares are held in the name of a bank,  broker or other
          nominee,  please  contact the party  responsible  for your account and
          direct  them to vote your  shares for your  Company's  nominees on the
          WHITE proxy card.

     5.   For assistance in voting your shares, or further  information,  please
          contact our proxy solicitor.

                    GEORGESON SHAREHOLDER COMMUNICATIONS INC.

                           17 State Street, 10th Floor
                               New York, NY 10004
                           (800) 334-8612 (TOLL FREE)

                     Banks and Brokerage Firms please call:
                                 (212) 440-9800




                              RICHARD N. CAMPISANO
                                 ATTORNEY AT LAW
                               34-36 JONES STREET
                          JERSEY CITY, NEW JERSEY 07306


                            TELEPHONE (201) 653-0906
                            FACSIMILE (201) 653-6110
                         email: Richard@CampisanoLaw.com

                                December 9, 2003

Mr. Donald S. Cymbor, Secretary
BCB Bancorp, Inc.
104-110 Avenue C
Bayonne, New Jersey 07002

           Re: The 2004 Annual Meeting of Shareholders for BCB Bancorp

Dear Mr. Cymbor:

     As attorney  for  Virginia  Boele Kemp,  a  registered  shareholder  of BCB
Bancorp  common stock,  please accept this letter as your  notification  that my
client  intends  to  nominate  an entire  slate of  dissident  directors  at BCB
Bancorp's 2004 Annual Meeting.

     Ms. Kemp will also be  submitting a "sell the bank"  proposal for inclusion
in your proxy  statement  that the bank will be mailing in connection  with this
same 2004 Annual Meeting.

     I would appreciate a return correspondence from you acknowledging that this
letter  constitutes  "proper  notification"  pursuant to the BCB  Bancorp,  Inc.
By-Laws and all appropriate rules, regulations and laws governing same.

     Should the bank's position be that this letter does not constitute  "proper
notice" regarding either of the aforementioned  items, please notify me at once,
with the bank's specific reason, so that I might satisfy that deficiency.


                                            Very truly yours,


                                            /s/ Richard N. Campisano
                                            Richard N. Campisano

cc:      Ms. Janine J. Akey, Chief Examiner